And I’m Going to Be Forty (In Seven Years, But Still…)!
I went out to a birthday dinner party on Friday night for my friend who was turning 40. As it turns out, the entire party was over forty, except for me. In the face of a minor personal crisis, it was nice to know that at least I have seven years to go till I have to contend with that trauma. Only one of the five women at the party was married and a mother. She sort of bummed us out with her talk about how she has no time to be creative, which was a giant buzzkill to any remaining fantasies I might have about the state of Married Motherhood. Depending on your health condition and other medicine which you are taking is good enough for your health and safety, and so that you can prevent any adverse effect and ensure that you do not need to visit local medical shop and ask buying levitra from canada . In such a scenario when most of the people expect quick cheap cialis no prescription results and in that sense most of the artificial enhancement products do not contain chemicals and can easily help men to gain cure of various sexual disorders. Try your hardest to get an buy brand cialis unica-web.com anchor that includes your main keyword. Also, the costliest might not mean that that is the viagra prescriptions best product available to you. That and the fact that my belief in romantic love was recently decimated, I’m starting to get really cozy and comfortable in the prospect of living an eternity in the state of single childlessness (sans the cats…cuz that’s when it gets depressing). Strangely, it seems like the older I get the less friends I have who mope around about being single and childless. Maybe it’s because we all have at least one Stressed Out Married Mother in our lives. They’re great for a solid reality check when you start to worry that the hole in your soul could be filled by a baby. No, you still have that hole, it’s hearkening is just muffled by the cries of your child…
Just for today, I am content with my single life.
You know you’re running into problems when the height of your creativity over the past year consisted of deciding what color mumu matches the pram you want to be pushing. SOMMs are great reality checks. Whenever I get into a “baby-cherishing mood”, I’m reminded that I also cherish chocolate truffles. At least I can cut back on the truffles if the mood doesn’t suit me 😉
…and you don’t have to make a long-term commitment to chocolate.
Forties and being single bring much joy. Woman in there forties is at the prime of our life. Some don’t sat around the house in chocolate. If you find your self having less friends , make new friends. Add a spice to your life put on your sexy outfit and go out on the town and flirt with every eligible man. You don’t have to take them home. While your flirting think to yourself “eat your heart out”. If all else fail take your self take your self out to dinner and a movie. Remember you are your own best friend. When we recognize this than the hole in our heart become smaller. This allow your heart to mend the hole with love for self. The loneliness of a lost love is soon forgotten. ” Alway ask yourself “Who Love You Baby”, then respond I DO.
I couldn’t have said it better myself. You’re the best, MJ!