Sexual Politics in “Salsa World”

According to my friend, Salsa World, as we call it, is a playground for single people with rhythm. It probably goes without saying that it’s also the playground for your run-of-the-mill Salsero Player (pronounced “playa”). But I’m going to say it anyway.

This is not necessarily a bad thing. I have many, many, wonderful Salsero dance partners (not all Latino) who I enjoy on the dance floor, but who would hardly make a suitable date in the ‘secular world’ (as Jewish Salsera calls it). Trust me, I’ve tried. In a single night I’ve been told I’m loved and adored by multiple guys who claim to be willing to do anything to spend time with me. Lunch date? Maybe next week…they seem to get busy when it comes to things like daylight and prolonged conversation about life, goals, vital statistics…so boring. What’s the point? Why get personal when you’ve got a Salsa World filled with scantily clad women performing sexual moves…?

Don’t get me wrong, not all Salsero men are so flagrantly predatorial and Salsa, while being a creative expression of sexuality, is not necessarily a place to find easy sex. For one thing, the Seasoned Salsera knows the deal and is not easy. By 12th grade, did you really want to date anyone in your class?. Any girl/woman who has developed some mastery of Salsa has survived her fair share of the onslaught of male sexual attention/aggression and she’s so over it. As a rule, the best shot a stymied Salsero has at gettin’ some play is from the fresh crop of women coming out of the Beginner dance classes. Wide-eyed and intoxicated by the magic and sensuality of salsa, perhaps rebounding from a bad relationship (or maybe that was just me), or just plain bored, beginner dancers will find a slew of charming, friendly men, great dancers, even picky ones, who are more than happy to “teach” them how to dance. Usually, these relationships are akin to any student/teacher relationship sullied by the mutual desire to exploit (sex/learn salsa). You can fight depression and anxiety without the side effects by taking low priced viagra ashwagandha. It is also useful to remove blocks viagra generika in the blood vessels and increasing the blood flow. You can go through the customer feedbacks and reviews to find out how others have benefited from it and what changes they are now levitra wholesale experiencing in their sexual desire or libido. First you need to select a dose of your choice and then you have to look for NABP or CIPA canadian viagra professional certified pharmacies. The relationship progresses or deteriorates to the extent that such needs are satisfied or not. Egos blow up and deflate. People move on…hey, it’s Salsa World…

However, for the experienced, and technically astute Salsera, the chances of having a more mutual, higher quality relationship with a Salsero are far greater, if only on the dance floor. A true Salsera isn’t really there to be hit on. She has far better things to do. Salsa is the ultimate Godess sport. In her element, the true Salsera not only knows, but feels that her true power and her beauty come from within. While dancing she’s in touch with her deepest sense of herself in the most natural and authentic way.

Only Relentless types (they could be seasoned or they could be beginners) are really going to have the patience to pursue a skilled Salsera and convince her that they aren’t like “all the other guys who all say they aren’t like all the other guys, even though they are” (Relentless Salsero; 06/21/07).

Not that she cares. She’s too focused on dancing. When it’s good, it’s better than sex. And you don’t have to stress about diseases or changing partners.

Just for today, I am a Salsera.