Advice

I think I’m back in the saddle of My Own Personal Journey, and out of everyone else’s saddle. If there’s one thing I learned in 2003, it’s that people LOVE to give advice (myself included). If you ever want to hear someone’s life story, just ask, “What should I do about…(insert problem at hand…relationships, jobs, taxes, etc.)?”

Not to blame anyone. I love giving advice (though it’s frequently comes out of my own anger). However, it isn’t anyone’s fault that advice from another affects me like a torrential downpour hurricane on a shantytown. What is hip replacement? Hip replacement is a surgical operation in which a hip that is viagra effects destroyed is removed and is replaced with an orthopaedic prosthesis. Heart disease, high blood pressure, and even diabetes can all cause erectile dysfunction. viagra without prescriptions canada In increases estrogen level and decreases the size of vessels which carrying blood browse for more 5mg cialis tablets out. The weakening body in elderly men does not allow them to do physical activity, online drugstores are viagra pills the best option for them to buy their medications just with a phone call. I think I made it out of childhood without a certain psychic protective shield that keeps other people’s opinions away from my solar plexus (or in other words, without boundaries). Hence, the need to argue with my therapist about why I choose not to date on the Internet, or with multiple vegans/vegetarians, about why I choose to eat meat, or with PC users about why I own a Mac, or with my mom about why it’s OK to send more than $20 an any item of clothing. It never, ever, ever, ever occurs to me that it’s no one else’s business how I live my life. And while intellectually, I may get that right now, surely when my neighbor suggests that I paint my living room coffee, I will fall into a temporary spell, wonder if I need to “set a boundary” by telling her that I’m not in a place to accept her color suggestions, and then decide to pray, meditate, and after avoiding her in the hall for a few weeks…forget the episode ever happened.

Just for today, it’s OK to let people have their own opinions…I think.