Girlfriend, You Stay in That Bad Relationship!
Every time I talk to my one friend she has a different relationship status. “We’re totally in love!” or “We’re just good friends!” or “It’s totally over!” I’m totally cool with whatever she does because I understand that it’s a “process.”
I no longer have a problem with my girlfriends (or guy friends) sharing with me about their bad relationship woes and then going back for more. The truth is, the only way to know what a good relationship is, is to experience a lot of bad and mediocre ones, whether it be in one particular relationship, or in multiple ones that are really the same one with different names and faces. Getting a hair transplant is one of http://cute-n-tiny.com/category/cute-animals/page/36/ cheap cialis australia the more “extreme” hair loss cures that you could do and would only suggest to go with this option as a last resort. Men should avoid using this if they buy women viagra have any of these systems fail to work. The main point is there, but the intricate science is more complex and so is why men usually prefer not to waste their time and instead make use of internet to cialis online without prescription . Sex problems generic viagra keep sex unsatisfying but it can be easily treated, if you consult a top sexologist in Delhi. (And, hey, I admit that it takes two to Tango, and that as fabulous as I am, I may have been more than one guys bad relationship…cuz, if it ain’t right, it ain’t right on both sides…see? I’m mature.)
It never works to just ditch the guy, because you’ll meet him again five seconds later at the coffee shop, making you a latte, or at your friend’s birthday party, or the gym, or New Year’s party, or wherever you go. Because it’s not the guys problem, the problem is that when we have self-esteem issues, they emit vibrational pheromones out of our pores (pardon this sloppy mixed metaphor).
As cornball and cheezeball as it sounds, the only way to let go is with…guess?…it’s not a jeapardy question…(if you’ve done a lot of therapy)…yes, we all know, people…it looks like a heart…yes, it’s with LOVE! In my experience, the relationship isn’t over until you can say “He’s a great guy, and (perhaps) someday will be a great husband or boyfriend (with varying degrees of counseling),” and you have to mean it, cuz you can’t fool the universe.
So, instead of getting mad at my friend’s boyfriend, I say “Girlfriend, you keep working on your issues and stay in your process! (which doesn’t quite sound the same with a ghetto accent, but you know what I mean.)”
Just for today, I accept the processes of my life and those of my friends.