I’m Sorry, I Thought You Went Deep
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Just for today, I’m becoming more real.
Thank god for projectiles of honesty, Accept yourself and love yourself just the way you are. You are what you are, and that is all you are. You don’t need to pretend to be something else. When you pretend to be what you are not, you are always going to fail.
Once you accept yourself just the way you are, the next step is to accept your partner. If you decide to be with a person, don’t try to change anything about him. Just like your dog or your cat, let him be who he is. He has the right to be who he is; he has a right to be free. When you inhibit your partner’s freedom, you inhibit your own because you have to be there to see what your partner is doing or not doing. And if you love yourself so much, you are never going to give up your personal freedom.
Can you see the possibilities a relationship offers? Explore the possibilities. Be yourself Stella. Find a person who matches with you. Take the risk, but be honest. If you decide to be in a relationship, do your best. Do your best because you are the one who is going to reap the rewards.
Once you decide to be a couple, you are there to serve the one you love, the one you choose. You are there to serve your love to your lover to be each other’s servant. In every kiss, in every touch, you feel you are each there to please the one you love, without exceping anything back. More than sex, it’s about being together. The sex becomes wonderful also, but it’s completely different. Sex becomes a communion; sex becomes a complete surrendering, a dance, an art, a supreme expression of beauty.
You can make an agreement that says, “I like you; you are wonderful and you make me feel so good. I’ll bring the flowers, you bring the soft music. We’ll dance, and we’ll both go to the clouds.” It’s beautiful, it’s wonderful, it’s romantic. It’s no longer a war of control; it’s about service. But you can only do that when the love you have for yourself is very strong.
Just for today I’ll love myself
Hollah! I love it! Becoming more real is the best thing life can bring. Just like the Velveteen Rabbit. God I love your blogs, they are almost as addictive as Sex and the City!!! You go girl!
Sam…do you have some thoughts on this? Please, don’t hold back. Share with us…
Renee – Thanks, Girl. I don’t know that I’m always trying to be funny, but I am glad it comes out that way.