My Summer Of Bitch-dom
“Fun” is not a word I would use to describe this summer. Neither would I use the word “relaxing” or even “sand-filled”…
But as I mentioned in the company meeting yesterday, it’s been a very “growing” time (“growing” being the universal euphemism for “total fucking nightmare”) that has yielded positive results in myself and others (and I’m not just talking about work peeps…). In a nutshell, before this summer I still believed in the idea of politeness as an effective form of communication. Was I running for office? Not unless it was for Senator Doormat, or Representative I Hate Everyone D-California.
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I finally got it that I would rather be respected than liked.
Just for today, I am grateful for my summer of bitch-dom.
I’m not sure standing up and telling it like it is is bitchiness (I alway thought that was a canine reference, but then again, how many dishonest dogs do you know?) but I agree, honesty is the way to go. I, too, fear being one of the unliked. But it seems like we always end up not liking ourselves in doormatdom. So congrats on the awakening!
Peas,
Karl
Thanks!