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More Ambivalence on Marriage and Kids

A while ago I invited my mom and aunts to come and stay with me for a weekend. They couldn’t get over what they perceived as the immense fabulousness of my life and both aunts repeatedly commented on how they wish they could live in my apartment single and alone. My mom has always pleaded with me to hold out as long as possible to get married (and when I say “always,” I mean was the only girl in my fifth grade with an iron-on shirt that read “A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle). Needless to say, the women in my family don’t seem to have any qualms about touting the less attractive facets of domestic bliss. Such, however, seems not to be the state of the rest of the world. Before you go ahead and buy your preferred ED drug online, you must weigh in the pros and cons of the surgery. tadalafil tablets 20mg They must be taken in particular measurements that is suggested by the pamphlet of the therapeutic pack or the medicine of the speviagra without prescription you can try heret. Saddle and double and had no obvious effect buy pill viagra on infertility. The effect was temporary and disappeared once the no rx levitra body got use to the dosage of the medication.It demonstrated diarrhea and belly upset in some individuals, but later on it was noted during the answering session that more than 70% of the ED cases.

I was watching a crime television show whose storyline was about a successful female doctor in her late 30’s who dissappears and how the investigator, who is also in her late 30’s, discovers that underneath the veneer of success lies the cold bitter sadness of a woman who neglected to get married and have children. What misfortune that the poor beautiful gorgeous brain surgeon and the equally gorgeous CIA investigor forgot to have kids! Question: where is the crime show about the wife/mother/successful (and super stressed) doctor who dissappears, and the crime investigator who discovers that beneath the happy homemaker exterior lies the cold bitter sadness of a woman who neglected to sing Karaoke, spend more time with her friends, sleep, and live a life not dependent on adrenaline and caffeine.

While I think I do want kids, I really appreciate the time that being single allows me to hang out, sleep, read and do whatever. I know that having kids will take all of that away.

Just for today, I am very cool with being single and childless.