Intimacy Issues
In my 32 years I have learned that people (those of us with “issues”) have different reactions to the fear of intimacy. My personal reaction is to run out to cute stores and blow my wad on really cute bags (which are now a bottom line for me, because bags and purses are like men after a certain point of inebriation – they ALL look cute and I have no ability to discern which one will still suit me the next day.) Sometimes, to sober up, I’ll ask shop owners if said cute purse was made by slave labor in China and they’ll look at me like, “Hello?! Are we on planet earth?” At which point I begin the Guilt Appeasement Process by pulling statistics out of my ass about how despite rampant poverty and disesase in third world countries, the family unit is a lot more functional and people are a lot “happier” than in the more advanced Prozac-conscious countries like the US. Anyway, that whole process is a lot easier than looking someone in the eye who knows me beyond and beneath the “fabulous” level and saying, “my feelings are hurt…shit.”
So last night I went to a party and there was this guy who I know who I spent some QT time with on his fortieth birthday, and his fear of intimacy is so great that he couldn’t stand in front of me and have a conversation. He had to be facing another direction as if he were fighting off hoards of women with his body (even though nobody was standing in front of him), while he turned to me and asked me if I had tried the yogurt dip. viagra vs generic The mechanism of action of Pharma kamagra is it is first absorbed into the blood stream. Dosage: * Just simply squeeze the jelly from the online sites. http://robertrobb.com/disingenuous-sustainability-argument-against-prop-123/ buy online viagra best prices on sildenafil http://robertrobb.com/2015/06/ That is the cause this type of drug is called generic medicine. It order cialis uk has been noted that age also affects a woman’s capacity to carry on a pregnancy to term. That’s some fear of intimacy, I’d say.
The United States, as a country, expresses a communal national fear of intimacy by invading other countries with NineWest, and the French Connection. That way Americans don’t have to confront their own fear of differences when they go to other countries and people are dressed differently.
Just for today, I can allow everyone to cope with their fear of intimacy in their own way.
